Getting divorced, being dumped, losing everything, losing my best friend/lover/person meant I lost my hope, purpose and actually myself.
But hey, I had done so many things before, I got this far, my „training” in life must have some additional gains that I could use.
Yes, I was right. I know how I can be ok, successful, happy and how I can manage hard times. Yes, even when it phisically hurts, when everything seems hopeless, when uncertainty becomes my daily standard, when anger, sadness and sorrow are „in charge” over me.
Yes, I can carry on living, I can carry on feeling ok, I can carry on delivering results in my work. Simply because I keep implementing what I’ve learnt so far.
Even now, during the pandemic and lockdown, when we’re managing our days through in a really uncomfortable and wearing situation, even now we all have a choice to stand up, to say no to negativity. We can choose to live better and happier whatever the circumstances. Resilience. Flexibility. Self-love.
I know it’s hard. It’s hard for everybody. I know that most of us want everything back to normal, but what if there is no „normal” anymore? We just can’t stop. We can’t give up and most importantly we can not be victims in our lives. We can not be victims of the circumstances.
